When we say men want sex and women want emotions from and in the relationship, and thats the tradeoff on which men women relationships stand, it doesnt really mean that men dont want emotional satisfaction or that women dont want sex at all!
Its only the that the required portions are inversely proportional.
Men are trained not to be emotionally overwhelmed cause where they are generous with emotional display, they cant find balance and thus find themselves totally weak and not in control, a state of mind, they instinctively are loathe to be in.
Women on the other hand never think of emotional bonding as losing control.
The real Problem starts when both feel they are giving more than they get!
And both think they arent asking for much!
Men wonder whats so big a deal and why such reluctance about having orgasmic bliss through the cheap wholesome way of a sexual act,
Whereas the women just cant understand why the man cant give her emotional support ( read that as time) even if he knows it makes her more receptive to the physical aspects of the relationship like sex.( i do think women love to receive gifts cause in a way it makes them feel valued... I wonder why men hate gifting? Is it the money part or is it the emotional display that gifting involves?)
Whereas the women just cant understand why the man cant give her emotional support ( read that as time) even if he knows it makes her more receptive to the physical aspects of the relationship like sex.( i do think women love to receive gifts cause in a way it makes them feel valued... I wonder why men hate gifting? Is it the money part or is it the emotional display that gifting involves?)
Both think the other is selfish, cause they cant comply with such a simple demand, without acting pricy.
Maybe they need to take classes (joint classes) to drill into each other the art of giving sex and emotions in order to get emotions and sex.
Maybe then there will be more smooth sailing in man women relationships than there is at present!
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